Part 1
Important facts that all of you NEED to avoid weirdos
I hate that i had to do this again.
Please guys… it’s not the end of the world.. it’s online… let it go… y’all too chronically online…
Now for one thing, i did wanted to make a part 2 of this. However, i did not expect a certain situation to happen again so i thought i would post this now.
I want this to be the most utterly blunt, straightforward, thing that everyone will ever read.
Guys, when you continue to be with a groomer and let that groomer raise you, you then become that groomer later on. Whether you stay by them because of pity or whatever reason, the more you hang out with them, the more you become corrupted.
This is really blunt of me to say, but there is no “ifs” or “buts” about it.
The moment you realize that it’s not normal, should be the moment you turn away. You need to stop making nonsensical excuses to be by their side.
It ruins you mentally, it ruins you physically, and if untreated til adulthood, you would continue staying that way and corrupting other children.
Yes, you can reprogram yourselves, you can change. But that change means to get out of that situation.
Pedophiles/groomers are always abused in some way or another, no matter what. So even if they had such a “terrible backstory”, it should never mean they’re excusable for their actions. If they had that happened to them, and would vent to you about these things… It means they knew it was wrong from the start, and never gotten therapy. You will never be the one to give therapy, an abuser will always take advantage of one’s empathy.
The funny thing is that none of you even know the PROCESS within that type of therapy, the things that go on there. It’s not a “oh you will be better and that’s it”, it’s not that you just understand it takes time and then they will improve from there, no…
It’s much more than that, they’re constantly being watched, do you even know why that is? (It’s not because of fascism/capitalism by the way… 
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If you don’t even know the reason, then you don’t even DESERVE to try to “fix” THAT, you clearly don’t have enough knowledge on the matter nor are you mature enough no matter WHAT that gooner says. Do you even know why most people agree on killing pedophiles? because they ALWAYS never want to improve on themselves. You cannot look at a child and then decide that it’s normal to GROOM them and then do certain acts with that child, because it’s a CHILD.
There is certainly a rare amount of people that are born with this disorder, HOWEVER, they should go to therapy first. They do not rely on a child for their own misfortune, because a child does not qualify for that. And i say this AS THE ADULT.
I have NO INTEREST in venting to a child.
When I was 16, and having issues in my life, it was hard for me to even rely on anyone who was around my age. Because nobody could actually understand, I’m not saying this in an ignorant way at all. I’m just putting it to perspective on why you cannot even rely on children EVER.
Hanner if you’re reading this I LOVE YOU 
You may have some emotional intelligence as a kid, but it’s never fully developed.
For god’s sake, you cannot even vote but you insist on trying to be a therapist without even going to get that degree OR qualification for it. And some of y’all are even worse by trying to self-diagnose.
Right now, within our world, everyone is so chronically online it’s not funny. Parents would let their kids already have an electronic device at the ripe age of 3 OR YOUNGER. None of them even try to at least see what they’re even on, that’s the worst kinds of things you can do as a parent.
There’s online predatory communities dedicated to encouraging kids to getting worse no matter what their situation is. Most of them just needed to talk to someone and that’s it, but these communities thrive on brainwashing them. Which is the exact same tactics explained in the other topic.
They always make sure to make them believe that they’re THEIR family, and that everyone else outside is always there to get them so therefore they cannot trust anyone except the groomer.
And the problem? These children later grow to adults, and end up becoming the groomer.
It’s a cycle, and that’s also what tends to be their end goal, they not only wanna use you like you’re their own personal toilet, but also to become one of them.
“But malak, that sounds ridiculous, what do you mean toilet?”
I think you would figure out the answer soon enough if you continue to screw around.
I know that’s utterly disturbing to say, but that really is the reality, they ARE disturbing. They are never human unless they actually make an effort. But you know they never did. So, therefore, they’re not human. In fact, you might as well be the toilet right now, you do not know what they’re doing behind that screen.
Nobody should ever consider that you’re their family, it’s just never a thing in online spaces. I keep saying that.
“B-but they just mean they really love us!” IF SOMEONE TRULY LOVES YOU, THEY WOULD NEVER GROOM YOU AND DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM EVERYONE THAT THEY DO NOT DEEM PERMISSIBLE.
If someone truly loves you, they wouldn’t try to make you believe they’re your family. ESPECIALLY IN THE SPAN OF A YEAR OR HALF A MONTH.
Dare i say AGAIN that you cannot be friends with ADULTS.
Even as parents, PARENTS, they cannot trust their children to be alone with their uncle. That’s not being overprotective, that’s just common sense.
As someone who is currently 19 years old, I do not like being friends with literal 13 year olds. I will never call a 13 year old my FAMILY, or my son/daughter. That is just horribly wrong, especially as someone who never even met their parents.
I have no reason to call a 13 OR 14 year old my family, not even as a compliment. It just doesn’t make sense, unless you’re seeking control.
Someone who truly loves you, doesn’t control you.
Think about it, these kids they groom are often those who hate their parents whether it’s a phase or not. They always happen to be groomed, one way or another. So why is it far-fetched to say that it’s control?
Don’t even get me STARTED on the victimhood, especially with their self-proclaimed disorders.
If you know this is a pedophile/groomer, and that you’re not supposed to be with them, that you can go talk to someone else about your problems pretty easily, that you were taught well by your parents to avoid them, that you were raised in a household where you get everything you want that you ask of them, but proceed to be with that goon and make other kids you know be with them. I am disappointed in you.
