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Im going to crash out from how much of a female dog my sister is
She pmo sm that a couple months ago I couldn’t control my anger and slapped her across the face (we fist fought until my other sister came to break us up)
Now, this was the way i was raised. Im not used to “gentle parenting” yet, and whzn my step mom found out i was the one that got in trouble.
I see why, i shouldn’t hit my siblings because they don’t listen to what their told, but at the same time, that kind of discipline is literally ingrained into my brain. No amount of “Hey sister, can you come do your part of the dishes?” “Can you come help clean the house like our mother told us to do?”
She just sits on her bed and days “im coming” while scrolling on tiktok. 5 minutes later she’s still not off her lazy ahh and ive already done all of the work.
Even if i use a commanding tone “Sister come put away your part of the dishwasher” and she will say “why? Ive already done my part?” (Which is true, but i like to keep the doshes going, so as soon as the dishwasher is clear, i put more dishes in for it to wash) and when i tell her “i loaded the dishwasher again and now we need to put it away so i can put the last bit of dishes in there to get clean”
Of course she say shes not foing to come help so i just do it all myself
At this point i do everything around the house, and im the only one willing to do chores, cause i ask every day after school “is there anything you need me to do before i go to my room?” But my siblings try to disappear every time we do chores together leaving me to do everything
And its not even that hard
All we have to do is take out the trash and do the dishes
I dont mind doing it by myself but i do mind the fact my sisters are getting away with being lazy
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thats a shower thought ngl.
No way you read all of that in 7 seconds
i didn´t
Duly noted
Im also gonna rant about my family situation
So i was raised in a family for 14 years of my life that used physical discipline, like id get back handed if i talked back, spanked if i did something wrong, normal strict parenting discipline.
Now i moved here, in 2022, and here is way different. You dont have to ask for everything, there are no designated eating times, everything is free game. Its still very foreign for me, but im slowly getting used to it.
My step mom believes in the “open door policy” and i havnt been grounded but once here (only for a day) while in my other house ive been grounded for a year.
Every time i get in trouble or spill something or do something wrong it makes me panic a bit so i take responsibility and clean it up or apologize and admit to what ive done- yet my step mom just say its okay and dont have a problem with it at all
Which confuses me
Im trying to get used to this but i cant make 14 years of life disappear in 3 years
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Getting used to a new living situation is always going to be difficult.
This is a good change, no?
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Yeah its a good change
I moved here because my mom thought it would be better and far away from my controlling step father (the divorce is still going on even though mom left three years ago)
I live at my dads house, and well…they are more wealthy than my old family and that’s another huge change
Being able to ask for money whenever i want is still something i feel guilty about
As well as asking to eat something
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I’m gonna crash out cause I want to go to the skate park and my mom keeps saying no cause shes too lazy bro
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I asked for like 5 days ina row
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I known this girl for abt 2 years now since we have been in the same school since 6th grade but a few months ago I went back to online school, everytime I call her on my moms phone since I don’t have my own phone she says she will call me back but never does am I wrong for getting mad at her?
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No youre bot wrong
If she doesn’t want to talk to you then she probably isn’t a real friend, or prefers face to face conversation
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I hate it whzn parents do that
When they turn around and call us lazy for not wanting to go out, yet when we do wanna go out they dont wanna take us
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Fr like bro what
IM GONNA CRASH OUT SHE STILL SAID NO I WANT TO GO SO BAD IM GoNNA CRY IM NOT EVEN KIDDING
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if that was me i would sneak out yk
and eventually come back and get caught yea don´t do that.
SHE SAID I CANT GO UNTIL FRIDAY I’m actually gonna crash out MY COMPUTER WONT WORK IM GOING TO LOSE IS
And shes acting so happy like everything is great because she can do whatever she wants because shes a parent and an adult
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Sneaking out is like volunteering for death row
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